AdvertisementWhy you should stop complimenting people for being 'resilient'23:31Download AudioResumeUpdated August 25, 2022Keisha "TK" DutesConnie Hanzhang JinAudrey NguyenfacebookEmailAn illustration of a black women juggling several different tasks: exercising, talking on the phone, carrying packages and typing on a laptop. (Connie Hanzhang Jin/NPR)This article was originally published on August 18, 2022.